Practice
In the large list of things to freak out about for next week, I find myself going over what the first conversation will be/should be/ etc. Which is funny, considering it will probably be such an emotional event that I won’t remember what I’m saying in the first place. Leading contenders:
- Hola mis ninas, soy tu papi americano (most probable)
- Soy dad, y yo te amo (the basics)
- Hola mis ninas, como estan ustedes (too formal/old?)
It’s not so much what will be said that is obsessing me. It’s more the surreal experience adoptive parents go through with introducing themselves to their children. I’ve absolutely longed for this day for a very long time. But, being honest and all, it just seems a bit weird.
Family birth by verbal introduction.
One Response to “Practice”
Hey Zach!
I learned 5 years ago that my mom had had a baby when she was young and had given her up for adoption. 5 years ago my mom and her daughter were reunited! The rest of my family soon met my half-sister, Molly and her husband and 2 kids. It is weird to have introduced myself to this new family, but I can say 5 years later (and really almost immediately after meeting Molly) the Lord connected our hearts in a way I can’t explain. Meeting her and her husband and kids is one the greatest blessings of my life and we have embraced our sister relationship – talking on the phone weekly – sharing our deepest thoughts – praying together. I can’t hardly remember my life without her.
I honestly can’t imagine what you and Renee must be feeling. But, I know the Lord will be present as he has been through this whole experience. We are thinking and praying for you guys!!!
Katie
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